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I'd Rather Light A Candle Than Curse The Darkness

Confident, successful, attractive, masculine man looking for confident , successful, attractive woman to enjoy dinner, concerts, sporting events together. I am a gentleman most of the time, a bad boy some of the time and funny as hell all of the time.

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Christian Preferences

Attends churchWeekly


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height183 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBald
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairBeard
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleMedical Professional

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Movies, Sports, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsThe Walking Dead
Forensic Files
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Thriller
Favorite moviesToo many to list!
Most of the Star Wars saga
Bucket List
Planes, Trains & Automobiles
The Legend of Ron Burgundy
The Legend of Ricky Bobby
Matrix Trilogy
Bourne saga
Original Mad Max (to a lesser degree Thunderdome)...
Music typesRock, Metal, Pop, Classical, Jazz
Favorite artistsQueensryche
Bruno Mars
Justin Timberlake
Megan Trainor
Almost any smooth jazz artist
Joseph Haydn
Reading selectionBiography, History, Instructional, Reference, Science
Idea of funLaughing with friends. Letting walls down and relaxing. Doing something new that forces me to get a little uncomfortable and challenges me and my confidence. Of course, doing that with a companion with the same feelings makes it even better!
HobbiesExercising, Sports, Camping


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorFunny
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, Going to a concert
Always wanted to trySkiing in Europe...hell, going to Europe!
Getting pilots license
Getting Scuba Certified


Political viewsConservative
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeMy goal is to live debt free, well maybe except for a mortgage. I am active working on that now. Experience new and challanging things and always continue to grow as a person.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness
Look for in a partnerConfidence is #1 characteristic. Are you the woman that can trust me and be confident enough that you doesn't need constant texts/ phone calls for reassurance. Can you know that I care about you, because I show it, and don't fall apart when we are away from each other?
Completeness is #2 on my list. Are you a complete enough woman that you don't "need" a relationship?
Feminine is #3. Are you a girly- girl? Can you act like a lady? If you are a "Tomboy", can you act like a lady in elegant situations?
On the first dateI like to do fun, interactive, relaxing things on a first date. I think that allows both to relax and get to know each other better than dinner or coffee, don't you? Those things might include (since it's winter) indoor mini golf, ice skating, roller skating, indoor go carts, etc.


Enjoys playingBasketball, Football (American), Football (Soccer), Ice Skating, Shooting, Snowboarding, Snowskiing, Softball, Track and Field, Volleyball
Enjoys watchingBasketball, Football, Football (American), Winter Sports

Exercising Preferences

ExcercisesJogging, Running, Weightlifting